Gay thresome
Welcome to Oh Gay Cupid! Autostraddle’s OkCupid series. We get lots of questions on Formspring regarding online dating, so we finally got a bunch of people together to talk about it. While OkCupid isn’t the only online dating site for queers, and maybe isn’t even the best, it does seem to be the one we apply most often. We’ll be discussing all things OkC, including meeting friends, first dates, profiles, fuck-ups, letdowns and more. Even though it’s the ‘OkCupid Series,’ the advice given in this series could easily be applied to any online dating site.
Oh Gay Cupid! illustrations by Rory Midhani
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How To Make Friends On OK Cupid
It’s unsettling when you realize, “Oh shit, I need to make friends.” This crisis usually occurs when entering kindergarten, moving into dorms or waking up from a ten year coma. If it’s happening later in life, you’ll find yourself too big for the sandbox and without the luxury of playdates. The task becomes more daunting when you’re specifically seeking sapphic siste
‘Doctor Odyssey’ Addresses the (Almost) Throuple in the Room
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[This story contains spoilers from the seventh episode of Doctor Odyssey, “Oh, Daddy!”]
It was “Gay Week” on Doctor Odyssey, and the Ryan Murphy-produced series addressed the (almost) throuple in the room.
At the conclude of last week’s episode, the show’s core trio of Max (Joshua Jackson), Avery (Phillipa Soo) and Tristan (Sean Teale) decided to make their relationship a little less platonic. After declaring that a threesome was on each of the character’s bucket lists, Avery tells her two potential suitors she’d be open to one, which forces Tristan into action. Max eventually joins the group, in a fade-to-black moment.
The first moments of this week’s episode — titled “Oh, Daddy!” — kicked off with Don Johnson’s Captain Robert guessing gay lingo ahead of the ship’s “Gay Week,” telling the ship that his younger brother, guest star John Stamos, will be aboard with his recent boyfriend.
‘My husband’s regular sex fantasy involves 2 men. I think he might be gay’
From the Slap Me Up archives: Our resident agony aunt Rhona McAuliffe offers advice to a reader whose fantasy sex life is becoming a little bit too real.
Dear Rhona,
I’ve been with my husband for almost seven years now and we have two little kids together. Our sex life has been a constant, even when I was heavily pregnant, or we hadn’t slept in months, or my boobs were still leaking, miraculously, we still made hour to be intimate.
We’ve always played around with adj fantasies and role plays. A regular favourite of my husband’s over the last year or so has been a threesome involving another man. Our fantasy threesomes used to involve another woman so I was curious about her being replaced by a man from the start, mainly because I’m not turned on by the two men/ one woman scenario and fight to get into it.
Now, when we’re having sex, my husband often gets totally carried away with dirty talk about this fantasy man. They’re kissing or getting it on and I don’t even fea Q: Can someone be both homosexual and asexual? I can’t wrap my brain around this one. A: Sure, a person can be asexual while also being homosexual . . . because asexuality is a spectrum, and that spectrum is broad and vast and includes people who experience sexual attraction and sometimes choose to verb on their sexual attraction. Basically, some asexual guys want boyfriends but don’t wanna fuck ’em at all, other asexual guys want boyfriends but don’t wanna fuck ’em much. It’s really not that confusing . . . unless you happen to be dating a guy who either doesn’t comprehend he’s asexual or knows it and hasn’t told you, in which case you’re likely to be as confused as you are frustrated. Q: I’m a recently divorced 53-year-old bi-curious woman living on the East Coast. I was with my ex for most of my life and he never mentioned this, but since I have begun dating, each new partner has told me how tight I am. You would think this was a good thing! I recently began dating a man who says he loves how secure I am. However, he also says it is making him come quickly. His marr