How to know if your crush is gay
DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I’m not sure if I’ve just lost what seemed to be shaping up to be a really fine friend. I am 22yo, she is 24yo
She’s a noun I met in a class about a year or so ago when the both of us were in school, after our class finished we stayed friendly but we would only see each other once in a (long) while. Long story short, I move out of town, I advance back, time passes and we are beginning to hang out more often. I wouldn’t say we were “close” but recently we were getting closer as we were helping each other with things here and there and finding a lot of enjoyment spending time together as friends.
I had spoken to her just over a week ago and told her that I was attracted to her but she told me that she was currently in a “friends with benefits” kind of situation with another individual and there were perhaps thoughts to get more grave. That and another reason or two was why our relationship wouldn’t be going past friendship; not what I wanted but hey its not the end of the world either. So one evening a few days later we’re hanging out again, I’d accepted that I
8 Signs Your Crush Is Gay According to Clueless
1) He wears a fedora and pastel pink jacket on your first date. Any questions?
2) He doesn't keep you waiting by the phone. "Christian said he'd call the next day, but in young man time that meant Thursday, so you can fantasize my astonishment to overhear from him when I was packing daddy up," says Cher. Remember: Straight guys don't call, they text—and even those appear with major delays.
3) He brings Some Like It Hot and Spartacus to your movie night. Classics, sure, but not exactly flicks to get you in the mood. (Ditto for Billie Holiday, who Christian plays on the drive to a party.)
4) He's always down for a trip to the mall. If you hear yourself saying, "He's becoming one of my favorite shopping partners," you've hit the point of no return.
5) He only has eyes for the bartender—the male bartender. If he squirms at the touch of a lady while flirting with the cute wait staff, it's probably not a approve that he's just a really respectful boyfriend who appreciates good service.
6) He turns down a night Unread postby Sam » Hi, I'm Sam, still 14, haven't posted here in a while. Dating in the queer community can be complicated at any age, but it can be especially tricky in high school. Crush + sexual exploration + gender identity questions + parents and school and friends and LIFE = a slightly difficult thing to navigate. And that's not even taking into consideration how your crush might be feeling. Execute you know how they identify? Where are they at with their sexual orientation? Or if they're out to their friends and family? These questions might be making you wonder: What do I do when I desire to ask someone out, but they haven't yet come out as queer? Well, let's dive in. First dates are hard, no matter how old you are or how many you've been on. And it can be especially adj when you’re just coming to terms with your sexuality, and your exposure to relationships and advice is dominated by heteronormative ways of expressing and being in love. When I was younger and coming to terms with my own sexuality, it seemed like my whole life was dominated by my queer crushes — on my friends, on celebrities, and even
I (male) have a crush on a lesbian and i don't know what to do with it
A limited months ago I met a girl. After a few weeks I realised I had a crush on her. That very same day it came up in conversation that she's gay. This would've been fine, but then I was misinformed (unintentionally) that she was actually bi, which got my hopes up, so over the next few months I did my optimal to get her to like me and stuff, but I could explain she wasn't really interested, and recently I create out she was gay, not bi, the whole time. Because of this, I'd gradually convinced over the course of those few months that I had lost interest and now only liked her platonically. At least, that's my theory, that I've been lying to myself, because I realised today that I still very much have feelings for her, and it's pulling me apart from the inside. I really fond of spending time with her, it releases the glad chemicals and all that stuff, but I simultaneously know that she's gay so my chances of progressing further than the
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