How to tell if my wife is a lesbian
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Dear Prudence,
My wife and I have been together for about four years, married for two. We verb a good relationship, and I would say are generally a happy couple. Over the last year our physical relationship has been on the decline. We have talked about it, and she will agree to “make an effort,” but that will only last a week before things go back to the way they were. We’re both fresh , but we only include sex about once a month. Even when we do have sex, it feels like she is just not into it. But afterward she denie
Think my wife is closeted lesbian, help!
LonelyDude said:
Hi all,
Ive always known that some things were off in my marriage (20 years), and contain even made half-joking comments about how she is acting like a lesbian. About 4 months ago, a series of conversations made it very, very real: my wife is not heterosexual and has a clear preference for women.Click to expand
Then she needs to reach to a saving faith in Jesus Christ who can transform her, making her a "new creature" in himself, free from the darkness and bondage of such sin.
1 Corinthians
9 Or act you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived; neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor homosexuals,
10 nor thieves, nor the covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor swindlers, will inherit the kingdom of God.
2 Corinthians
17 Therefore if anyone is in Christ, he is a brand-new creature; the old things passed away; behold, novel things have come.
LonelyDude said:
I asked her to see an LGBTQ counselor.
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After some time apart after I went off to college, we reconnected, and after that, it all happened quickly: Our relationship bloomed, we fell in romance, and we moved closer to one another to be together. After three years, I was proposed to. I knew this was who I was supposed to marry because we had split up once and gotten back together, unable to be apart.
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