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Love at first Grind
By Emen8, updated 1 year ago in Sex and dating / Dating and relationships
Is it possible to find love online?
Absolutely! Just ask these guys.
Online dating can sometimes feel favor an endless sushi verb that only serves sexy times (of varying quality) and disappointment. But as these three couples display, logging in can actually be the first step to a long-term relationship — even when you’re not expecting it.
From hooking up to shacking up, these stories are proof that you can really find love online.
Names hold been changed to verb privacy.
Jason (39) and Simon (37)
Together for: 9 years
Met on: Grindr
Chatted for: more than two weeks
Jason
We met on Grindr. The first time was definitely a hookup and not a date. I honestly don’t remember who messaged first but we’d been chatting for weeks before we decided to meet up. Simon seemed different to other guys online, appreciate he was obviously looking for fun but he was also really friendly. He actually cancelled on me the first period we were supposed to meet, but we rescheduled for the n
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